You want the cycle in your life to end. You recognize there is a problem and it has you by the throat. You are trapped under the weight and power of your will and the will of Satanic forces. You want to escape this cycle in your marriage and grow with the God ordained person you married.
It is good that you recognize that the days are alike and you know there are things you want to change in your life. You have grown weary of the cycle and you finally want it broken. The very first thing you must identify is where do you want to go? You must have a clear vision. Most cycles are perpetuated because you have no where else to go. What is your desire that God will give when you delight in him? Where do you want to go?
When you have identified the problem, you can begin filling in the blanks with the solution, but the problem must be clear and concise. Ambiguous issues in your mind make it easy for Satan to keep you in a cycle that has you going no where and affecting no one for the glory of God.
You must write the vision down and make it plain. That everyone in the house may read it, understand there role and execute the plan. If you have no vision you will perish within the cycle. The devil would have won. Don’t stop working on your vision. The devil will have you put off working on the vision and then you will perpetuate the cycle. Don’t put off the vision. Make it plain.
If I asked you want you wanted as a single person in a mate, what would you tell me? What is the vision for your marriage? What are you supposed to be getting from the marriage? What type of characteristics must a person have to fulfill those desires of your heart? Are these desires mentioned a true statement? Don’t deceive yourself.
If you are married already and I asked you the vision for the home, would I receive an answer or the same answer from the residents of the home? You must have multiple visions for the family. A marital vision, family vision, employment vision, entertainment vision. Where do you want to go with your entertainment? What is the destination of your marriage and family? You should have answers to these questions. If you do not have answers to these questions, it means you are locked in a cycle right now and the devil is making you ineffective for the kingdom of God. A stuck family is a dead family. A family in a cycle isn’t moving forward, but as time ticks is literally moving backward into the pit.
Where there is no vision my people perish. Prayerfully, create your vision today and make it plain for the entire family to read and execute.