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I am sure by now you have heard the term “Don’t Judge Me.” A term often used as a defense mechanism. A last resort message to ward off accusations and feelings of regret, hurt and failure. Because I am guilty and my heart has been exposed, I utter the phrase “Don’t Judge Me.” My wrong has caused my heart to break and without an adequate defense, I utter, “Don’t Judge Me.” The proverbial shield of protection but does it work?

When an individual uses the term, they neglect the problem and no solution for change is found. The psalmist writes “My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart you, God, will not despise (Psalm 51:17). When the judgment is correct, rather then harden yourself to it, use it rather to change. When a brother or sister in Christ judges my actions to be hypocritical and they are, I may be tempted to say “Don’t Judge Me” and continue being hypocritical or I could accept the judgment allow the pain to sink in and change for the better.

God cannot use individuals (for the individuals good) who are unwilling to be hurt with truth. Most of the time when people say, “Don’t Judge Me” they are wrong. The church is not required by God to judge those outside of the church, only those within it. This is how the church remains a shelter for the sick and a blessing to those who enter it.

The world is supposed to be disgusting. It should not be strange that a man desires to enter another man or a woman allows a dog to enter her. Women exposing themselves online with children and men running after little boys. This is natural behavior from an unregenerate man and such were some of us, however judging outside the church belongs to God.

When you decide to take the title I have been given by the Scriptures, my judging will begin. I am a Christian (Acts 11:26) and a minister. It is my desire that we all grow in wisdom and knowledge and understanding of the word of God. Namely, to have a personal relationship with the Holy Spirit who teaches us all things. So if our conduct is less than what the Scriptures demand, I will judge you and I will gladly accept your judgment.

I am not ignorant of the fact that if I judge the same measure will be measured against me and I assure you, that whatever judgment I cast, I am not guilty of the same. The purpose of judging our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ is so that we become better. For those who have jobs understand that the progress report is a judgment of your character and your abilities for the job you are presently engaged in. For those who desire to remain employed accept the judgment of their supervisor and change, or else continue down the same path and get fired.

How much more important is the judgment of the people of God? The people of God are judging so that you may not miss heaven and be counted with the many folks that will say, “Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity” (Matthew 7:22-23).


7 responses to “DON’T JUDGE ME

  1. Very convicting post. Thank you. I have struggled with being corrected by people outside of the church who try to tell me how a Christian should act or what behavior I should tolerate in my life. I have also shared with other believers who have told me that life today is “not as strict as our grandparents generation.” Both these groups confuse me. I long for the compassion of Christ, but the discipline and self control of being a disciple! It upsets me when people of the church act like the world.

    • It upsets me more that the number of preachers are increasing in America and many of them are without God’s Spirit. It becomes very difficult to be bold and tell the truth, when the truth makes most angry, but it takes God’s Spirit to have the boldness to do it. We need more lovers of God that infuse pastors and parishioners to love others genuinely. Loving God is the key, but it takes personal fellowship of the believer with God to increase faith and love in God.

  2. You actually took the topic that was on really on my heart in prayer today….and you said it so well that now I don’t have to blog about it! We are called as Christians to judge each other’s actions and behaviors, not to say that we ourselves are perfect, but to encourage each other to walk in the way that we were called. And the church has guidelines as to how this should be done, always in love. Great post on a very important topic for the church today!

    • Thank You! I am sure you can still write about as you will have a differing perspective and to reach your own personal audience of readers. Pornography floods the internet and I think Christians should flood the internet more so.

  3. I met a Christian once declaring Christ a king
    And holy righteous judge God’s law administering.
    God’s holy living Word exposing guilt and shame
    Fulfilling holy law inseparable the same.

  4. Happy New Year and I have enjoyed reading your blogs. Thank you

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