sad-man1Whether in the body or out of the body I cannot tell. There has been a man to whom loved his wife so deeply, that when at first sign of her betrayal with another man he kills himself. He wars and fights within his mind on whether or not to take his life. He loses the victory and for him life is already over. He had placed every ounce of his being into a frail person who let him down. As teeth within his flesh, biting down to the very soul he gives his last rite. Writing down his letter of how hurt and betrayed he feels. “The world has offered me a beautiful woman and the world has taken her away.”

This young man is a symbol of other men who have taken their life, in part, because of a woman, but why? Why did he take his life for such a temporary condition? Why did he end his legacy so soon without first considering a little bit more?

His whole being was placed into the woman and for him his life had ended. He was a dead man walking, when she walked out.

I am calling young men or even old, are you thinking that a cheating girlfriend or wife necessitates suicide? Is life really over? If your all, is in a woman, it will be. Please consider placing your all in Jesus. He is the firm foundation. He is the rock of ages. He is the calm in the middle of the storm and a strong tower to those who run to him. A cheating wife is not the end. A cheating girlfriend is not the answer. Do not make rash decisions on temporary pain. Call today upon Jesus and place all your chips in him, for he will not fail you, but with tender arms and wise precision will lead you to a place where goodness and mercy will follow you all the days of your life and you shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.


  1. Amen, thank you for sharing and giving words of encouragement to those in pain.

  2. Well written and good message! I’ve known too many who have put their all into another.

    Edit: losses should be *loses*

  3. Very well written….Thank you for your faithfulness to our Lord, Roger.

  4. Very good advice. Life is very precious!

  5. When we as Christians learn to love Jesus Christ stronger and deeper than anyone else including spouses, then we will have an anchor that holds us firm when our world comes crashing down around us!

  6. Double and Triple Amen!

  7. This is a great post Roger. Brian

  8. realityenchanted

    Wow!!! Beautiful story, short as it is!

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